Parquet: Add opt-in uncompressed row group size tracking

[nssalian]

Closes: #16325

Rationale for this Change

Adds write.parquet.row-group-size-check-uncompressed (default false) to accurately enforce write.parquet.row-group-size-bytes when using compressing codecs (GZIP, ZSTD, etc.).

ParquetWriter.checkSize() uses writeStore.getBufferedSize() which reports compressed bytes for flushed pages. With effective compression, the writer never sees the target exceeded because it's comparing compressed data against an uncompressed limit. Row groups grow unbounded.

What changes are included in this PR?

When write.parquet.row-group-size-check-uncompressed=true:

1. Measures getBufferedSize() before and after model.write() per record. Between these points, data is in uncompressed column buffers (no page flush occurs during model.write()). The delta is the exact uncompressed record size.
2. Accumulates into rowGroupUncompressedSize. Flushes when it hits the target.
3. Removes the 100-record minimum check interval floor for the uncompressed path.

Disabled by default.

When enabled getBufferedSize() calls per record. Each call iterates column writers adding field reads. It's the same pattern parquet-mr uses in ColumnWriteStoreBase.sizeCheck(). Kept it optional so as to not cause an immediate change to the default behavior.

Are these changes tested?

• Parameterized test across all codecs (gzip, snappy, zstd, uncompressed)
• Existing parquet tests pass locally

Are there any user-facing changes?

Yes. New configuration but set to false by default.

[nssalian]

CC: @pvary @steveloughran @huaxingao @aihuaxu PTAL

[steveloughran]

LGTM, good test coverage.