bump Propolis (#10231)

since last time:

* Wire up vsock device to propolis-server (propolis#1075)
* virtio-nic: in-repo tests and a better device state FSM
(propolis#1064)
* Metrics for crucible disks (propolis#1073)
* [vsock] cleanup half-closed connections (propolis#1101)
* mvp vm attestation (propolis#1091)
* [vsock] better handle Lifecycle (propolis#1104)

plus another few commits that should be non-functional changes:

* Add vsock phd smoketest (propolis#1086)
* phd-runner option to defer guest cleanup on failure (propolis#1088)
* bump dropshot to 0.17.0 (propolis#1081)
* Want vsock packet dtrace probes

that is to say, this brings the VM RoT/attestation work, a bunch of the
vsock fixes for issues we'd found in testing, and a fix for the virtio
nic issues that Windows saw in R18.

Co-authored-by: Jordan Paige Hendricks <jordan@oxide.computer>

Author: iximeow